Meet Ray Brejcha — coach, speaker and workshop facilitator. He specializes in helping men create attraction and find deeper connections with women.

In this episode, Ray talks about what’s possible when you attend the Red Pill Weekend.

Topics in this episode include:

• Creating Attraction
• Deeper Connections
• Being the nerd
• Being the guy who has it all but still feels empty
• How to get beyond small talk
• Concentrating on outer appearances to cover up insecurities
• Using women to fill a void
• Following a hunch instead of having it all figured out
• The importance of feedback from men and women
• The value of having solid men in your life
• Killing attraction — being needy, wishy washy or being fearful of rejection
• Being clear with your desire
• How core beliefs sabotage you — “I don’t deserve this,” “I’m not enough,” etc.
• How so many “successful” men have a difficult time with women
• Settling for less vs going for what you want
• How taking risks builds attraction
• What to expect at The Red Pill Weekend

MP3 Audio – How To Build Attraction With Women

Tripp talks about his recent experiences, including The Mankind Project’s New Warrior Training Adventure as well as a 7-day Hollow Bones Zen Meditation retreat. The discussion touches on life transitions, stepping into the unknown, and honoring your potential as a man. It also focuses on the deeper issues that lead to living a satisfied life when so much of our inner wiring is saying “not enough”.

In episode 1:

• Why Tripp hosts the show
• Life Transition
• Letting go of identities
• Living with a boat anchor tied to the leg
• Five years of darkness
• Honoring your potential
• Stepping into uncertainty
• How to trust uncertainty
• Walking out on to an icy lake
• Feeling challenged by life and loving it
• Following the feeling of being alive
• Mankind Project New Warrior Training
• Hollow Bones Zen Retreat
• Resistance to mythopoetic men’s work
• Iron John by Robert Bly
• Jun Po Roshi
• Goenka Vipassana
• Part of me may die
• Noticing where you’re guarded
• Being less open
• Being defensive
• Boundaries vs Resistance or a Wall
• Not being able to receive compliments or gratitude
• “Don’t beat your own drum”
• Missing out on receiving love and appreciation
• Hitting the wall
• Fear of never being satisfied
• Not enough — No matter what I do it won’t be enough
• Not able to celebrate success
• Wanting to feel more secure in the face of the unknown
• Meditation — the part of you that can’t be taken away or destroyed
• Cultivating a sense within that is secure
• Will I still be ok?
• Confronting the hard realities of life and still being ok
• The Tao
• Samadhi
• Soul exfoliation — peeling off layers
• Getting cooked
• Sitting in resistance

MP3 Audio – The Dangers of  “Not Enough” – Featuring Tripp Lanier

We rejoin the discussion with Tripp Lanier as he shares a powerful story about an exchange with Zen Master Jun Po Roshi. Ray and Tripp talk about the dangers of becoming a “wound worshipper”, how your wariness makes others wary of you and how your secrets ultimately own you. Also, listen as the benefits of getting real with your fears and the transformation of sharing them with others is revealed.

In episode 2:

• The gift of being smacked with a stick
• A valuable lesson from Jun PoLiving a paradox
• “You can’t fuck it up and you can’t get it right”
• Working so hard to get it right and not screw it up
• Play full out and have fun with the screw ups
• Sacred Laughter
• Learning to recognize when you feel less whole
• What gets in the way of your potential
• Shadow work mixed with meditation
• Waiting to open up until you trust someone
• Wariness begets wariness
• Trying to protect yourself actually pushes people away
• Being less approachable, intimidating
• Pushing away people that actually want to help
• Becoming a retreat, seminar or workshop junkie
• How to melt shame
• Terminal uniqueness
• Making things less significant without being dismissive
• Don’t be a wound worshipper
• Your secrets kill you — get them “out there”
• It’s not that bad when you put it out there
• Having your friends help you see what is driving you
• What are you scared of? What are you defending yourself against?
• Notice what you’re avoiding
• Can you be playful with that?
• Tell someone what you’re scared of
• Being more trustworthy
• The energy drain of “keeping it all together”
• Where the juice, depth and meaning in life is for you

MP3 Audio – You Can’t #$%* It Up and You Can’t Get It Right

Plus, listen in as Bryan shares the origins of the Authentic Man Program and as Ray discusses techniques for developing an engaging presence.

MP3 Audio – Authenticity and the Power of Presence